What is a FLR (Blog)


FLR = Female Led Relationship.

A female-led relationship (FLR) is a relationship in which the woman takes the lead in various areas. This can range from decision-making and finances to sexual preferences and daily routines. The most important aspect of an FLR is that both partners agree to this dynamic and have fun with it.

A loving FLR

A loving FLR is a relationship in which the woman takes charge, but this is done in a respectful and caring way. It's not about dominance or control, but about a healthy balance between give and take. Both partners feel valued and supported, and communication is essential to ensure that both needs are met.

What does a loving FLR look like?

  • Open communication: Both partners talk openly about their wants, needs, and boundaries.
  • Respect: Both partners respect each other's opinions and feelings, even if they disagree.
  • Trust: Both partners trust each other and believe in the other's good intentions.
  • Equality: Both partners feel equal, despite the different roles they play.
  • Support: Both partners support each other in their personal growth and development.
  • Fun: Both partners enjoy the relationship and have fun together.

Tips for a successful FLR

  • Talk about your expectations: Make sure both partners are clear about what they expect from the FLR.
  • Set boundaries: It's important to set and respect boundaries.
  • Be flexible: An FLR is not a static relationship, so be prepared to adapt and change.
  • Communicate regularly: Talk regularly about how the relationship is going and what could be improved.
  • Seek help: If you're having trouble, don't hesitate to seek help from a therapist or relationship coach.

Note: An FLR is not suitable for everyone. It's important that both partners are comfortable with this dynamic before they get into it.