The book that was the beginning of my change. The book that was the impetus for me to change from "Little scared bird" to a more self-confident man.

The enduring battle of the sexes is legendary. In TV ads, sitcoms, and chick flicks around the world, we've all seen the images: the long-suffering woman and the clueless, insensitive man.

This classic (1870) Venus in Furs should of course not be missing from the bookcase of a slave.